More Families Struggling With Addiction Find Help Through Online Support

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A growing number of family members of people struggling with addiction are finding help through online support groups, The Wall Street Journal reports. These groups offer flexibility and real-time help, participants say.

Many parents say they look for support online because they are ashamed to discuss the problem with family or friends.

The groups include small and informal groups, as well as large groups such as The Addict’s Mom, which has more than 70,000 members on Facebook. Some groups, such as Shatterproof, advocate for legislation to combat addiction.

One group of six women with addicted children calls themselves Soul Sisters. They met online, and have been communicating largely through text messages for the past five years. The women have talked about signs of relapse, their children’s prison sentences and rehab centers. They have never met in person, but hope to this year.

One member, Margaret Worthen of Raleigh, North Carolina, has a son in treatment after years of heroin addiction. “For probably 10 years I had no one to talk to about it. I had my head down like a guilty parent,” she told the newspaper. After she joined Soul Sisters, “All of a sudden I had other women, other good moms all going through the same thing.” She tried Nar-Anon meetings, but says she found them too regimented. “For me it didn’t work. I’m a talker, and it was too structured,” she said.

Participants from rural regions find online support groups particularly helpful. Addiction is hitting rural areas hard, but they often lack in-person support groups, the article notes. The online groups can be accessed at any hour, and can be tailored for specific needs, such as grandparents raising grandchildren after the death of an addicted parent.

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    Lori angel

    December 15, 2018 at 10:07 PM

    I have my stepdaughter & “a son not a blood relitive” but like a son to me both useing, I wait everyday expecting that dreadful phone call, both refusing treatment, I have custody of my stepdaughters children, & she just don’t care, I don’t know at this point if there’s anything left i can do, I just thought if I found a support group to help understand this sickness, it’s affecting 3 families.

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    Cathy Taughinbaugh

    April 7, 2016 at 3:15 PM

    The Rise Up Moms is an active research-based support group for moms who are struggling because of their child’s substance use. We also use the CRAFT approach and provide weekly email information,and inspiration, two group phone calls a month, as well as an interactive member’s area where moms can reach out and support each other.

    We offer support around self-care, how to better communicate with your child, how to help your child in a healthy way plus monthly topics of interest. Moms from across the country, and even as far away as Australia have joined our support group.

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    dominique simon-Levine

    April 5, 2016 at 6:14 AM

    We have written in several times. Alliesinrecovery.net IS the online home for all families struggling with the addiction of a loved one. The state of Massachusetts is offering the service to every resident. The site teaches CRAFT, provides expert Q&A, builds community through private email, and is the best site for curated resources and news.

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